Sometimes a lot of people who have chosen the wrong partner for life. Since forever, then we must determine from now. Although it is still long.
The characteristics of the candidate's wife will accompany me is:
1. Should be the same religion and Soleha
The point is not different religions, eg Christian religion, culture, etc. So that our children are not confused in choosing the best religion. And through the commands in the Al-Qur'an and Sunnah.
2. Obedient and did not argue for it's best for us
The point is to always obey what he said during it's true, do not argue against the husband commands.
3. Who can keep his views
4. Cautious.
5. Believe in God, Angels His Books His Messenger, His Messenger, the Day of Resurrection, and believe in fate good or bad.
6. Testify that there is no god that exists except God, testify that Muhammad is His slave and His Messenger, establish prayer, pay the obligatory charity, fasting in the month of Ramadhan, and made the pilgrimage to the capable.
7. Ihsan, which worship God as if to see God, if he can not see God, he knows that God sees him.
8. Sincere worship solely to God, resignation to God, to love God and His Messenger, fear of Allaah, hoping the grace of God, repent to Him, and be patient for all God's decrees, and grateful for all the pleasure given to her.
9. Reading the Al-Qur’an and trying to understand, dhikr remembrance of God when alone or with many people and prayed to God alone.
10. Turn amar nahi ma'ruf and unjust to the family and society.
11. Doing good (ihsan) to the neighbors, orphans, poor, and the whole thing, and doing good to the cattle he owns.
12. Connecting kinship to people who decide, to give to people, holding a gift to him, and forgive those who mendhaliminya.
13. Berinfak, both when the field or in narrow circumstances, restrain anger and forgive people.
14. Fair in all cases and be fair to all creatures.
15. Keeping her spoken words of lies, false witness and telling other people ugliness (ghibah).
16. Keep your promises and the mandate given to him.
17. Devoted to both parents.
18. Hospitality connect with friends relatives, friends nearby and distant.
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